I went over to this guy’s place for dinner wednesday evening, it was tasty. We made out afterwards on his couch. As I’m walking home it penetrates my haze of blue ball pain that I don’t have my cellphone on me. Doh! Left in his couch. Suck! Get home, send email. Intend to pick it up last night. Timing doesn’t work out. Stay up “discussing” politics and economics. Sleep through planned time to get it this morning. Miss two lunch dates planned for today. (Another “Whoops” in and of itself. =)
Woohoo, got number from guy whose place I left cell phone at. He was all “When are you going to be here? I have things to do, you need to be on time, blah, blah, blah”. Very intense about it all. Yes, you have a life, I understand that. You can say “I have things to do, if you don’t make it, I won’t be here.” Action -> consequence. Do not freak out on me. Do not tell me what I have to do. Do not expect to ever see me again if you’re going to take the attitude that I’m an errant 12yo. Chill, chummer.
Ugh.
Dontcha think that perhaps he’s a bit miffed since he’s been spending extra time actually waiting around for you not to show up. Perhaps communicating to him that he doesn’t need to wait around for you might make things easier – you probably have different expectations from him.
Of course actually showing up at his place when you say you will might be a good idea… [grin]
I did send him email before I went to bed saying I would likely not be up in time to get it from him before he went in to the office. Not as responsible as making it there on time but far better than not sending any notification. =)