courtesy sixpack6_t9:
If we accept that what is commonly termed “the slut phase” is the gay equivalent of courtship, the description below may apply (albeit, a relatively low intensity courtship in my case). Also, I’m exit-happy. When the time comes to fish or cut bait, 9 times out of 10, I will cut bait. It even fits to the degree that the bit of my heart that I use as bait goes with the would be significant other. I only want the fish that want to be caught. And I do need to work on my conflict management skills. But the biggest problem for me is that it rarely makes it to that point. Attraction/Avoidance bind, maybe.
eXpressive: 5/10
Practical: 10/10
Physical: 3/10
Giver: 6/10
You are a RPIG–Reserved Practical Intellectual Giver. This makes you a Rock of Gibraltar.
You are loyal, kind, thoughtful and conscientious. You’re a good person. You make everyone around you happier and better, even if you yourself are not at your happiest or best. You just care so much about your friends and loved ones that you can’t help giving them everything of yourself. It can wear you out, but you’d never let on.
You’re successful, smart and fun to be with, but your self-esteem could use some boosting. You don’t like conflict, and you don’t like demanding things for yourself, so you can feel unappreciated. But then you wonder if you don’t deserve to be appreciated. You do!
You have many small crushes, but it takes you ages to get to a serious stage with someone. You get so caught up second-guessing yourself and worrying if the other person really *likes* likes you that you never dare to make the first move. Generally you end up with another clever RPIG who knows one when s/he sees one. This adds up to one long courtship. Fortunately this also adds up to one long marriage.
You would never cheat. You would never hurt anyone’s feelings. You are so sympathetic and give so many second chances that it takes a lo-o-ong time for anyone to get on your bad side.
Your only problem is you can be *too* thoughtful — you can end up worrying and getting hung up over nothing.
You may be a boy scout.
Of the 158569 people who have taken this quiz, 7.1 % are this type.
i’ve never thought that the chaotic part of your moniker was that accurate. i think you’re more internally chaotic than externally chaotic. you’re very close on the “expressive” and the “giver” categories. this quiz pegged me fairly well:
eXpressive: 8/10
Practical: 8/10
Physical: 9/10
Giver: 3/10
You are a XPYT–Expressive Practical Physical Taker. This makes you a Player.
You are clever, sexy and sexually oriented. You know what you want and how to get it. You command attention in a room of strangers, as your charisma, your personality and your spending habits are all oriented toward making an impression on your target sex. You pay attention to details.
You reel people in easily, but have a harder time keeping them around since you are just as demanding in a long term relationship as you are on a night out. Combine your demanding nature with the fact that you’re hard to keep up with and easily bored, and you get a recipe for problems with fidelity.
In a conflict, you’re brutal — you know how to unleash one cutting remark that turns a normal fight into a brawl or a breakup. Your general attitude is you just don’t have time for fighting — if you feel like your current partner doesn’t understand you, you know you can find another one.
You may see yourself in a parent and dislike his/her choices, so you want to avoid them for yourself. You feel confined by social pressures, both to pair up and stay paired. It will (and should) take you years to settle (and for you, it may really feel like you’re settling).
Please use a condom.
Of the 158625 people who have taken this quiz, 7.9 % are this type.
the chaotic thing
It is all in my head. And while I know I’m not telepathically projecting my mental state at all times, I often feel like (fear that?) I am. My image of myself is that I need a warning label, because the inside and the outside don’t match all that well. And so, my nick reflects the split, cheerful (exterior) and chaotic (interior).
I’m an RPIT.
Maybe that’s why we get along! It’s the perfect parasitic arrangement. 🙂
I wonder if the giving of grief counts under giver or taker =)
Tried it, sadly it didn’t quite work.
I came out RSIT with T as borderline (5 out of 10). Some parts were right, more parts dead wrong. I swapped to RSIG, more right, still a lot dead wrong.
I guess I don’t put a lot of faith in this because tests have shown reading other people’s astrology charts produces a similar reaction.
Still, it’s food for thought.