Classic

So, I’m minding my own business chatting late at night, when this guy who I find pretty physically attractive, but entirely too emotionally hung up to seriously consider sleeping with [again], sends me an im, and starts hinting at how horny he is. I bluntly ask him whether he’s trolling for sexual company. He tells me about this guy he’s been chatting with, and recently met (out of state but moving here soon), and how they’re both monogamous sorts. Then he asks me whether it’s cheating for him to sleep with someone else before he makes it here. I tell him that that is between him and his guy. This question/nonanswer exchange is repeated a few times, with variation. Then he says he’s going away for a few minutes. (to beat off, I’m guessing). Then he comes back, and says that his moral compass is clear, and thanks, but he’s sorry, he doesn’t think it’d be right for him to, etc, etc. Mostly, as soon as I heard about the guy moving here, I was amused. Particularly about him trying to shift responsibility for his moral code onto me.