On becoming a pest.

I often feel like I’ve become a pest, and become exaggeratedly careful about not being one. This is most prominent with guys I’m attracted to. I’m sure it’s annoying on the other end. But, if they were really interested, they’d say something, right? [ETA: Maybe I’m asking the wrong question. Maybe the question should be “Are you still interested in chatting with/associating with/getting to know me?” If yes, then act like it, god damn it. If no, then ‘thanks for your honesty’. If maybe then ‘get back in touch when you make up your mind.’ Frustration is ugly.]

12 thoughts on “On becoming a pest.”

  1. they’d say something, right?

    NO.. Over the Years Guys I Have Seen Out I Just Gave A Casual Glance Or A Nod Hello..And When “I” Yes “I” Finally Got the Nerve To Actually Say Something They Were like, Ive Wanted To Get To know You For Years But i Was Afraid Youd Either Say No Or Would Reject me…And I Was Like WHAT??? I Felt The Same Way…Anyhow, My Two Pennies…

      1. Short Story, When i Learned how to type, i learned on a manual typewriter and i would always jam the keys because i can type fast and i have FAT fingers. So, my teacher in his attempt to slow me down and not jam keys to take a break and start capitilize every word and it stuck…it looks normal to me…LOL…but if i slow down i dont have to cap every first letter…

  2. and they call me a slut

    im very forward.
    if you can remember back that far.
    im also very horny – and i like to have sex.
    so, i have no problem with guys saying they are not interested in me, cuz there are so many there that all i have to do is keep being friendly and talking to people im attrackted to until i find someone who’s attrackted to me!

  3. oye vey!

    I’m certainly still interested in that Math tutoring, especially if I fail this class and have to re-take it, which looks like it may be the case!

  4. Wouldn’t it be nice if this were the case?

    Unfortunately, people are cowards. They’re too afraid of rejection to be forthcoming.

    I do not exclude myself from this overgeneralization.

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