{"id":755,"date":"2004-02-02T23:56:00","date_gmt":"2004-02-03T05:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=755"},"modified":"2004-02-02T23:56:00","modified_gmt":"2004-02-03T05:56:00","slug":"responsibility-for-my-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=755","title":{"rendered":"responsibility for my expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I cannot fairly, and therefore will not, lay responsibility for the consequences of the mismatch between my expectations and reality primarily on the shoulders of others.  If I convince myself that what I want to happen is what is probably going to happen, that&#8217;s my responsibility.  Only if someone else deliberately misleads me can I place blame at their feet.  Resentment under other circumstances is simply not appropriate.  Disappointment, perhaps, but not resentment.<\/p>\n<p>Being mature sucks sometimes, but welcome to reality. =)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I cannot fairly, and therefore will not, lay responsibility for the consequences of the mismatch between my expectations and reality primarily on the shoulders of others. If I convince myself that what I want to happen is what is probably going to happen, that&#8217;s my responsibility. Only if someone else deliberately misleads me can I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=755\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;responsibility for my expectations&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-755","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/755","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=755"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/755\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=755"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=755"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=755"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}