{"id":526,"date":"2003-09-04T11:24:00","date_gmt":"2003-09-04T16:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=526"},"modified":"2003-09-04T11:24:00","modified_gmt":"2003-09-04T16:24:00","slug":"monogamy-position-clarification","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=526","title":{"rendered":"monogamy position clarification"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not in favor of absolutely open relationships any more than I&#8217;m in favor of absolutely closed ones.  In a relationship I&#8217;d ideally like to be free to mess around in a no-penetration-even-if-barriers-are-involved (oral included as penetration) sort of way, and do that rarely, and with decreasing frequency, and have it be a very symmetric setup.  <\/p>\n<p>The number of people who are exclusively into anal sex disturbs me.  I mean, sure, the prostate is a wonderful thing, and everyone should experience the joy, but, uh, major std risks, pain (in my experience pain is typical, though not universal), and smelly messiness.  &lt;shrug&gt;  To each their own, I suppose.  My own is far more in the oral camp. =)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not in favor of absolutely open relationships any more than I&#8217;m in favor of absolutely closed ones. In a relationship I&#8217;d ideally like to be free to mess around in a no-penetration-even-if-barriers-are-involved (oral included as penetration) sort of way, and do that rarely, and with decreasing frequency, and have it be a very symmetric &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=526\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;monogamy position clarification&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/526","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=526"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/526\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}