Is it wisdom or simply apathy when someone you have no interest in getting to know denounces you via email for his interpretation of your expression of disinterest, and you just let it slide? <\/p>\n
This is not the part of CA I was hoping to adopt. Though, in truth, I’m happier with this than the agonizing over similar situations I did in less ‘target rich’ environments. I’d feel a little slimy for that<\/i>, but I guess I just really don’t care. <\/p>\n
Less with the self hating, more with the vaguely sad, maybe it is a good thing over all. I feel sorry for the kid, but pity is a terrible foundation for a friendship, let alone a relationship. I hope he finds happiness in his way, and far away from me.<\/p>\n
Direct from the net dating really sucks. Even the cool guys I’ve met that way have mostly had serious complications (too damn busy, oh-did-I-forget-to-mention-my-wife\/partner, not-so-much-out-of-the-closet, etc). How to meet more people in environments I feel comfortable in? Or at least, what environments can I meet people I’d like, and not feel horribly out of place in? <\/p>\n
Point to ponder.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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