{"id":36,"date":"2002-04-09T12:47:00","date_gmt":"2002-04-09T17:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=36"},"modified":"2002-04-09T12:47:00","modified_gmt":"2002-04-09T17:47:00","slug":"must-give-us-pause","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=36","title":{"rendered":"Must Give Us Pause"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, I had a couple of stop-and-think-about-it moments today.<\/p>\n<p>The first was with someone who works in a different group from me.  I really don&#8217;t know him, but I was carrying my new cell phone back from the post office (yay new cell phone, yay lower phone bills), and we got on the subject of accidental dialing, (new phone is a flip up, old phone was not).  And he said something about accidentally dialing my mother while making out with my girlfriend.  I found it amusing on two levels, and I was laughing, and I thought that not so long ago, I would have felt compelled to inform him that girlfriends weren&#8217;t likely for me, but this time it didn&#8217;t really matter to me.  As a point of ettiquette, not sure quite what &#8220;the right thing&#8221; to do there is, but I don&#8217;t regard it as terribly important.<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after this, as I was walking to grab lunch, I heard the annual &#8220;X person died, at age Y in year Z, at concentration camp A&#8221; litany.  I did some quick math, and figured that by now, the people she listed while I was walking past would be 70-odd years old, those that didn&#8217;t die in some other way.  I&#8217;m not saying that this wasn&#8217;t important, and hasn&#8217;t had important consequences down the line, but will we continue to mourn untimely deaths when the individuals would have died years ago anyway?  What about centuries?<\/p>\n<p>When we harbor the memory of a wrong done to us personally, it&#8217;s called keeping a grudge.  In light of the recent events in the middle east, well, collective keeping of grudges doesn&#8217;t strike me as a solution to our ills.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, I had a couple of stop-and-think-about-it moments today. The first was with someone who works in a different group from me. I really don&#8217;t know him, but I was carrying my new cell phone back from the post office (yay new cell phone, yay lower phone bills), and we got on the subject of &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/?p=36\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Must Give Us Pause&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4,13,14,66],"class_list":["post-36","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-commentary","tag-diary","tag-navelgazing","tag-politics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=36"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=36"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=36"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=36"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}