I made a commitment a couple months ago to get off, and stay off, gay.com and other cruisy chat net sites. I didn’t set a terminating time for this commitment. But I’d kept to it fairly well, until I went back to pittsburgh. While there, I filled much time just fooling around on gay.com, planetout, yahoo, and salon personals. I never went into chat rooms, but I checked out ads, and did use the planetout and gay.com im-style stuff. <\/p>\n
So, the reason I quit this whole thing was that it was not returning to me anything worth what I was putting into it. And I felt I had fucked up my relationship with the GMHC, through a relationship that went fucked up places as a result of chat foo (though only a little, and the damage has been totally repaired from what I can tell). And I hold to the former point. <\/p>\n
In fact, though, until tonight’s GMHC stuff, I found myself doing the same thing, even after getting back into town. Now, I’m feeling totally uninterested. Yay, gmhc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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