Okay, I had a good date with a really great guy, and fooled around with him afterwards. After events, err, progressed, I was aggressively playful, and I triggered some bad juju memories from his past, (which he’d told me about earlier in the evening). He froze up and eventually got dressed and left. He kissed me goodnight (goodbye forever?) on his way out the door. I sent a big apology email the morning after, and haven’t heard back from him since he walked out the door. (late in the evening on Monday). <\/p>\n
So, should I write him off? A major part of me is saying I’ve already violated his sense of safety, and I should not invade further. Another part is saying maybe he just isn’t interested. Those are the negative sides. Then there’s the “he’s an awesome guy, with more potential than I’ve met in awhile, and he seemed really interested in me, and maybe we can make this work, but I won’t know if I don’t try.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Okay, I had a good date with a really great guy, and fooled around with him afterwards. After events, err, progressed, I was aggressively playful, and I triggered some bad juju memories from his past, (which he’d told me about earlier in the evening). He froze up and eventually got dressed and left. He kissed … Continue reading “applied poll”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1927"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1927\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cheerfulchaotic.crazycrew.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}